You’re Never A Victim of Your Life

June 23, 2014

images… you’re only a victim of your CHOICES.

So if you are unhappy with any area of your life, MAKE ANOTHER CHOICE.  It’s as simple as that.

We get stuck in negative patterns where we think that we are being held back from success or abundance or held back from love or we feel stuck and treated unfairly in our lives when in reality we are just reaping the ramifications of our own choices. 

No one is making you do anything.

No one is keeping you somewhere you do not want to be.

No one is making life difficult for you, but YOU.

If you choose to give your power over to anyone or to any situation to allow yourself to feel broken and disempowered then realize that that is a CHOICE. No one has any power over you unless you give it to them. You have a choice everyday as to how you are going to show up in life and what kind of day you are going to make of it. Remember the quality of your life is in direct response to the choices you make. If you want a better life, seek ways to improve upon your circumstances. Make different choices than the ones that have led you to where you are.

Life is too short to bemoan your fate and accept less than desirable outcomes. It is up to you to recognize that the way you have conducted your life thus far is not working for you and be open enough to bring about the change you truly want and deserve.  Are you ready to make another choice? The rest of your life is contingent on it.

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Written by Donnalynn Civello

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  • John O'Shea, June 25, 2014 Reply

    Thanks Donnalynn. As usual, well written, clear and very helpful. Miss you.

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