When Your World Comes Crashing Down

January 15, 2015

th-1… pick it up.

What choice do you have?

Life specifically brings us challenges to test our strength – to test our resolve – to test our ability to demand better for ourselves.

When your world comes crashing down, it is a sign for you to ask yourself if you are ok with those changes? If you are not, it is your work to pick yourself up and put your world back together again. No one will do it for you.

It is also important to remember that when your world comes crashing down, it is a sign that some of your infrastructure was not sturdy enough to hold you. There was a crack in it. You are growing and changing and your infrastructure needs to be able to grow and change with you in order to support you on your journey. Highlight that broken infrastructure and replace it with a new structure that can better meet your needs. Recognize that life changes and directions need to change as well.

You don’t get what you want in life just because you want it or just because you think you deserve it, you get it because you work hard for it. And you make the right choices for it. Nothing good ever comes easy and nothing easy is ever really worth having. So when your world comes crashing down, don’t expect it to be easy to rebuild, but know that it will rebuild even better than before.

Don’t give up on yourself. Fix the crack in your infrastructure and allow yourself to grow into the beautiful being you are here to become. What other choice do you have?

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Written by Donnalynn Civello


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