What You Focus on EXPANDS

November 4, 2013

images… so focus on what you WANT, not what you don’t.

Everything is energy and where we put our focus is what we will continue to experience – whether we want to experience it or not.

It’s very simple. You do not get what you want in life by focusing on what you do NOT want.

In life, we only attract a vibrational experience that matches our own vibration. So, if our feeling is sadness and frustration and our focus is on that which we do not like about our significant other or job, then we will only succeed in creating more of the same because that is where our focus is. Whereas if we were to focus on the positive aspects of our relationship and/or job, then we would be raising our vibration and therefore able to attract a much higher outcome.

You have to feel good to have good in your life. If you feel bad, you will only be able to attract those situations that are unpleasant and unsatisfactory.  If you do not feel as if there is any good in your life to focus on, then focus on your dreams. When you focus on that which you truly want, and that which will truly make you happy, then that is all you need to feel good and then the universe can respond accordingly by bringing you more of that good feeling. This is the law of attraction – it is a spiritual law of the universe and cannot be changed.

When we learn how the universe works, we learn how to get what we want out of life. If you continually feel badly and focus on what you do not have, you will only create more lack and unhappiness. Time to learn how to play the game.  Focusing on what you DO NOT WANT in your life CAN NEVER bring you that which you truly desire, so focus on what you DO WANT. It’s the only way to make sure you get it.


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Written by Donnalynn Civello


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