Know Who You Are

August 19, 2014

Unknown… so you can become even better.

Know who you are – know all your issues, baggage and insecurities. Know absolutely everything about yourself – the good, the bad and the indifferent. Be brutally honest with yourself. The more work you do on becoming aware of who you are and how you show up in life, the better of a life you create for yourself. 

Awareness creates growth – lack of awareness creates negative patterns. Do you want to move forward in your life?  Become cognizant of your behaviors and your reactions to others. Ask yourself how you are showing up? Are you being the best version of YOU? Or are you unconsciously spewing venom at others?

Know who you are… know your issues, baggage and your insecurities and never throw them on anyone else. Remember who you are is YOURS, it is not anyone else’s fault that you feel a certain way or that you have a certain situation going on.

When you can practice awareness and see yourself objectively, you can make better choices for yourself – one’s that will allow you to grow and become the best you can be. When you don’t have a clue as to who you are and how you prefer to show up in life or what behaviors you prefer to engage in, you will find yourself at the mercy of whatever mood swing is on deck. Who you are is greater than any mood swing/anger outburst. Never give your power over to any volatile emotion to define who you are.

There are none so blind as those who just will not see. Wake up, open your eyes and recognize how you are comunicating. Your life experience is directly proportional to the behaviors you put out there. Time to learn who you are and start becoming even better.

Read more inspiration in Donnalynn’s new Book, “Life Lessons,” click here.

If you would like more information on Emotional Wellbeing and Life Coaching Sessions with Donnalynnclick here.

If you would like to read some reviews on Donnalynn’s Coachingclick here.

If you would like to schedule a session with Donnalynn, click here.


Written by Donnalynn Civello


Leave A Comment

Leave a Reply

RECENT POSTS: Ethereal Wellness Counseling

When You Walk With Your Head Down

… you walk into walls. It’s common sense. When you’re not looking where you’re going, you’re most likely going to end up somewhere you don’t want to be. Most of us sleepwalk our way through our lives — running the mouse wheel of life. We are so busy trying to make a living that we […]

It’s Not About Making The Right Choice

… it’s about accepting the choice you’ve already made. Our life’s path is made up of choices and there are no mistakes when it comes to making choices, because there are no right or wrong choices, there are only different choices. Don’t get caught up in the choice you’ve made – make it and move on. […]

Looking Back to the Past

… is only helpful to the extent it allows you to move forward into your future.  If it doesn’t, it keeps you back. Your life is only ever in front of you, never behind you. The past can be an informative tool if we don’t get trapped in it. If you want to uncover the […]

A Mid-life Crisis

… requires a mid-course correction. A mid-life crisis can happen at any age, but the wisdom here is that the secret to healing it, is in the way we define it. Life naturally has its ups and downs, and life is constantly asking you to define who you are in relationship to it. You’re never […]

When You’re in the Flow

… everything moves with you. And when you are not, nothing works. When you are in the flow of your life – flowing downstream — everything flows along side you. When you are out of that flow – pushing upstream — things are much more difficult. How do you know the difference? Ask yourself how […]