If It’s Complicated

December 2, 2014

images… it isn’t meant to be happening right now.

It’s as simple as that.

Everything happens in its own time here on planet Earth. Just because you want something to come together now, doesn’t mean it will.

Your pushing for it to come together before its time only creates obstacles and frustration. If it was meant to be in your life right now, it would be working out. The fact that it isn’t working out for you as quickly as you would like it too is your indication that it is not yet ready to be in your life.

All the forceful pushing and prodding for it to manifest will not manifest it any quicker. In fact, it will only create problems for you. The universe is your own built-in buffer system. It keeps what is not ready for you at bay until it is at a place where you can dance with it.

If it is meant to be in your life, it comes together quite naturally with an ease that only the universal flow can bring. But if it is not yet ready to be in your life, it will not come together with great ease, there will be hardships, obstacles and delays. This is your indication to take a step back from the situation and release your grip.

In actuality you do not want to force your will on yourself. You do not want something that is not at your level. Take back your energy and put that energy into something else. When it is time for that situation to manifest in your life, it will come together and if it doesn’t, it was never going to.

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Written by Donnalynn Civello

  • my daily journey through life, December 2, 2014 Reply

    Reblogged this on My Journey Through Life and commented:
    I do believe everything happens for a reason and happens when it is suppose to happen. Nothing we can do will change that. It is better to accept it rather than fight against it.

    • dlcivello, December 2, 2014 Reply

      I very much agree with you. We spend so much time trying to force our will on situations and we fail to realize that they are not happening right now as a means of protecting us not frustrating us. Better not to think you know better than the universe. Don't fight it, accept it and put your energy elsewhere. Thank you for your comment.

  • Ali, December 2, 2014 Reply

    Thank you so much, really. I've been forcing so many situations and projects lately and have felt the pull of the universe to back off which goes against my Type A perfectionist programming, this was just the reminder and gift i needed:)

    • dlcivello, December 2, 2014 Reply

      Seriously, Ali, it's how the universe works but we don't get it. We keep pushing our will on situations, trying to force them, but in reality they are not happening FOR A REASON. You are being held back from that desired outcome for a reason (and it is usually because it is not right for you AT THAT MOMENT). Trust the process of your life - trust it to bring you to the RIGHT OUTCOME at the RIGHT TIME. If it's complicated, take a step back and put your energy somewhere else. If it is meant to happen, it will come together easily enough when it is time. :) xo dl

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